Guinevere came through during a session addressing the client’s desire regarding attracting love.
I watched you and I am concerned for you because I know how much you want love. Love is important. It is something we all deserve and it’s something you in particular deserve as well as can have. It is not beyond your reach. What is getting in the way however is your perception of self and your perception of self and relationships. This is not unusual. Women, in particular, have a certain view point on relationships and they feel they must inhere to certain standards and ways of being in order to have a man in their life. They often sacrifice who they are in order to please a man because they want love.
When you give it up and let go of pleasing a man and focus on pleasing yourself, loving yourself, honoring yourself and working on yourself. You then attract the man that is perfect for you at this time. The love you seek is not that of a man however, it is the love of God. God resides within your own heart. And when you align with God in your heart you will have the love that you seek. When you are in love, which is the state that exists when you are aligned with your source within your own heart. That state of being in love draws to you the relationship that is most loving and appropriate to you.
When you are not whole, you do not necessarily attract a relationship or partner that is whole. So ideally you want to create wholeness within the self first and out of that state of wholeness you can create a relationship of wholeness. Why settle for anything less. When you become whole within yourself and you are in alignment with your source you reside there together in your heart and you come out with that heart energy and then move out into the world. The right man is attracted to you.
It’s never about a numbers game. No one ever has to play a numbers game. The only time a numbers game really has benefit is when someone is lost and they need to return home to God. They bounce around from relationship to relationship identifying what doesn’t work. And they gain more quality to find what they’re searching for. But if someone just focused on becoming right with the divine and aligned with the divine then the perfect relationship would emerge. The sooner someone is willing to do that and address that and come to terms with that which is really within the self and it’s only about the self. Then they will attract the right name sooner than later.
So working yourself as you are is the greatest gift you can give yourself plus it will create a relationship that serves your highest good faster than anything else that you can do. Love yourself. Know that you are loved profoundly. Know that within your own heart exist answers to all your prayers regarding any relationship issue. But mostly the relationship issue you have about wanting to find the right man. The right man is coming when you are right within yourself. So it’s time to give up, shame, blame, regret, sorrow. All the negative memories of broken hearts, relationship, sadness, disappointment. All time someone didn’t meet your expectations.
Give up all times someone felt you didn’t meet their expectations. It’s not about what you look like or what you do. It’s about who you are. Because who you are will then be able to attract who you deserve that would serve your highest good and he can emerge on his own effortlessly. Because when you are ready, it helps even him to be ready. He’s already being ready will help you become more ready. But until you are both ready, you will not attract each other. So all you can do is work on yourself because you can’t change another. But you can work on yourself to help ready you and make you readily available, open and receptive to attract the right mate that is purposeful in divine order and alignment.
And when you come from that place and you attract on that level, the relationship is more purposeful, effortless, pleasant, easy and joyful. So love yourself first. Let go of all the memories that have held you back until this point. Release them. Forgive yourself and others. And then open yourself to receiving the love of your life because it is possible and you can have it. It is available to you as soon you are ready. And we will help you to get there, to be ready and to be ready and receptive to attract and allow him in to your heart. And we look forward to the day that we too can dance at your wedding as we will all be equally grateful and excited that you have made the connection of a lifetime. And, we look forward to that. We love you and we support you in that goal. And, we thank you for the work that you are doing to help bring that forth much easier.